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You just don't understand / (Record no. 673)

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000 -LEADER
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001 - CONTROL NUMBER
control field ASIN1853814717
005 - DATE AND TIME OF LATEST TRANSACTION
control field 20190522112502.0
008 - FIXED-LENGTH DATA ELEMENTS--GENERAL INFORMATION
fixed length control field 111004s1992 xxu eng d
020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER
International Standard Book Number 1853814717 (paperback)
020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER
International Standard Book Number 9781853814716 (paperback)
082 04 - DEWEY DECIMAL CLASSIFICATION NUMBER
Classification number 305
100 1# - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME
Personal name Tannen, Deborah.
245 10 - TITLE STATEMENT
Title You just don't understand /
Statement of responsibility, etc. Deborah Tannen.
260 ## - PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, ETC.
Place of publication, distribution, etc. [S.l.] :
Name of publisher, distributor, etc. Virago Press,
Date of publication, distribution, etc. 1992.
300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION
Extent 336 p. ;
Dimensions 20 cm.
520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC.
Summary, etc. Why do so many women feel that men don't tell them anything, but just lecture and criticise? Why do so many men feel that women nag them and never get to the point? In this pioneering book Deborah Tannen shows us how women and men talk in different ways, for profoundly different reasons. While women use language to make connections and reinforce intimacy, men use it to preserve their status and independence. Some have claimed that conversations are the forum of male power games, but the author suggests that jockeying for attention is not the whole story and that even when domination is the result, it is not always the intention. She shows how many frictions may arise because girls and boys grow up in essentially different cultures. Where women use language to seek confirmation, make connections and reinforce intimacies, men use it to protect their independence and negotiate status. The result is that conversation becomes a cross-cultural communication, fraught with genuine confusion.
856 40 - ELECTRONIC LOCATION AND ACCESS
Materials specified Amazon.com
Uniform Resource Identifier <a href="http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1853814717/chopaconline-20">http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1853814717/chopaconline-20</a>
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